When you are trying to do you, and your a wife, mother, sister, friend and maybe even a CEO. Shit can get tough. Just about everyone around you needs your attention. Trust me I know. As the older sister, but not the eldest sibling as a female and having nurturing ways, I want to help everyone around me do them, but am I doing me? Mytruth no, and not for a very long time. So I told myself for 2019 I would do things differently.
At least when it comes down to what I want to do for self. This year I plan on travelling to a state or city that I have never been, start a kick boxing class because this is something I always wanted to do, and finally use my birthday gift certificate from 2018 for a full body massage. Just to name a few. Back in my zone is just what it is. Focus on self and do more for self. Don’t get lost in what everyone else needs to do before you check YOU. You only get one life. #MyTruth
Name a time when you was with someone, your sister or your close friend, and you was eating out, and afterwards you notice something was in their teeth. Do you tell them or let it ride?
Mytruth telling someone something is in there teeth, is just as hard as telling someone some real personal information. you know your truth. But why is that? For me if something is in your teeth, nose, or even on your face it will take me a minute or two before I say something. I don’t know why, but it’s like a feeling of hesitation. I would feel more bad not saying something and someone else mentions it.
That’s how most people should be with there personal truth. Everybody on social media does not need to know everything. Once people see that view of you, unless its for a money bag they automatically judge you. This world is a mean place, and tough skin will get you through, but when you self inflict pain to your self that is even worse.
I know things get hard. To be 33 years old, I have seen a lot for my age growing up. It surely was not a white picket fence, but some things I choose to keep between myself and the ones who know. Of course your story can be a life lesson for someone, but make sure it is at the right place and the right time to disclose. Make sure the message you are trying to spread is somehow going to help the next. That’s what life is to me. I don’t expect the same view for you, but I believe in that each one teach one. Live your life people. #Mytruth
How is that when you decide to do something different in your life, and you may have shared the possible change with your mom, dad, or even your closest friend there reaction is not what you was expecting. The response most people give off can be a negative response, and for someone going through a life changing situation that is the last thing they want to hear or see.
Mytruth, the only reason most people give off a negative response is because they are deep down jealous or want to make changes in there own life but don’t know where to start, so they will do everything in there power to stop your joy. Yea it can also be that they may not think your choice is a good one, but at any given time someone comes to you with a positive change they feel will come to there life, should be embraced. You should give them some type of positive light, not bring them down. Family is the worst at being negative. Mainly because they are around when your UP and when your DOWN. They saw how it was when you was down, now you have a plan of success, and to them you have to do it there way, and whatever you was thinking is wrong. Can they truly feel what you feel? No! I tell my kids all the time. No one else can live your life. You have to stand tall and alone sometime.
There is always somebody waiting on you to fall. No matter what. At the same time technically we all have to live this way. Even in relationships. When I say relationships that can be your job, relationships with friends and also when conducting business. You have to make sure you have your own back 1st, before you place trust in someone else to have over your energy. Your power. You have to make sure you can handle whatever may be thrown at you. A lot of things believe it or not can break a person.
I make sure that when in any relationship, I try to be there for that person, and cheer them on. I have very few people that I can call a friend, because trust for me is a powerful energy source. When my parents passed in 2010, so many things came out about family, and people my parents called friends. I don’t allow any situation to block me out, or shut me down, but best believe I got all eyes on you :0) I say that with a smile. I keep moving forward. Don’t put energy somewhere that will draw negative energy.
There is only one you, so be YOU and live your life. We all want to be happy, and what is one thing that makes everybody happy MONEY, so I say go make some and be happy. #Mytruth
Sometimes when you put your mind to do something that you really want to do, a part of you always wants to hold you back. Why is that? Mytruth (pause n think) is it more than just fear? Why do the average person put so much pressure on there self? Every day you are faced with new trials, situations. Yet we still get upset by the outcome or how it may turn out if it does not go in our favor. At least the first time around.
Stress is a beast, and knows how to destroy if one allows. So why stress out during a certain situation? Only because it is in our human DNA to impress and always look good in the eye of the next. I have to catch myself at times, especially with being a mother.
Sometimes I feel as if I am not doing enough when it comes to my kids. Of course as parents you always want to give your kids more than what you had growing up, so yes parenting is and can be stressful. They are priority #1. So making sure all there needs are met will put a lot of pressure on you. Keep in mind that we are not robots, and we will and I say this as softly as possible (excuse my french) Fuck up some things along the way and that is fine, because we are learning and teaching each other.
That is what life is all about. Each one teach one. So I try not to stress out (It still happens) but I know that I am human and shit will happen along the way. I just have to suck it up, and move on. Situations will occur, if they don’t, then what are we doing? Why are we living? Even the riches man has issues, but he sure ain’t gonna let that stop the next move. His next step is always a way to make the situation work in his favor. Take a bow and just keep living life. Make choices that will bring a bounty of gold for generations to come. Remember you can control the outcome, with how you put your energy out in the universe. #My Truth